In a relationship between two lovers, it is needed many things to make it longer and enjoyable. In fact, we can not stick in our idealist to love somebody. There are many things in common which our relation longer is probably out of our principle, but effective in make. In this piece of writing, you will see some tricks which are very useful for gentleman who is having a girlfriend.
First, never make your girlfriend in under pressure condition. Sometimes, girls expect her lover to be a good guider for her. Actually, it’s just a courtesy. She doesn’t want to be managed by his lover. Just get free her to do anything, as long as it’s not dangerous for her. For example, it’s not needed to ask her ‘where are you now?’ or ‘what are you doing?’ Basically, girls have ability to be good in lying. She can say something instead of doing another thing. The solution, just trust your girlfriend whatever she said, weather you have known that she is lying.
The second tricks is giving her freedom to walking with everyone, include a guy. The loyalty of a girl is not better than a boy. Perhaps a girl forbids her lover to walk with another girl, but in fact she never applies the same rule to herself. Furthermore, when you knew or see directly your girl beside a guy, she just says ‘he is just my ordinary friend, it doesn’t matter anyway’. That’s her reason. In contrary, when you are walking with a girl, she would be very angry. That is the egoism of woman kind. The solution just let your girlfriend walk with everyone, and if you want to have ideal with another girl, just keep in secret.
The third tricks is just ignore when your girlfriend telling about another guy. Sometimes, it’s needed to show your jealousy in front of your girl. It will make her sure that you really love her, but you don’t have to do that too many. Usually, your girlfriend tells about everything. The point, one of job to be love is a rubbish bin for your lover. All stories have to told, and have to be listened either. All you have to do just listen to her, and give a little response like ‘yes’, ‘oh really?’, and ‘good’. Think positively that your lover just want to make you angry. If you are not angry, she will be very annoyed and be boring to make you jealous eventually.
The last thing but not the least exactly, is never ask your girlfriend to do something, and do not do another’s. Girl hates to be arranged. Perhaps when want to do something which will hurt your feeling, she bid permission from you. The word that she want to hear is ‘no!’ and you will be angry finally. In the cat, that’s the wrong way to solve that event. Just give her freedom to do anything, without shows any emotion. Automatically, she will realize her mistake, and feel guilty when doing that thing. Usually when you forbid that thing, she will be motivated to break the rule and do another more.
I believe, if you do all the tonics, you will be a good boyfriend. Your life will be so happy, because the aim of relationship is to amuse each other. Just take it easy if your girlfriend cheat on you, just think that you are the best for her, and she will be back to you. Sure that is only you who can give her satisfaction. Slow down bro, take it easy just let it flows. Just let your love flow as usual, do not do something stupid.
Dimas, your free writing is quite simple but it so meaningful to me. Yes I agree with you that a girl supposed to be treated like you have mention above. Over all, it is a good free writing and easy to understand. (prastirama).
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